Friday, January 20, 2017

be happy









Lately I have been super reflective about life. I guess it comes with the new year territory but also I feel like I'm hitting quarter life crisis. Like, what makes me happy? Should I be content with where I am in life? Should I be pushing myself even more? I'm only 25, I have so much time left, what can I do with this life of mine? I also have a major case of "keeping up with the Joneses" and I get really confused when people my age are buying houses and cars, even having babies. Not that I want a baby, but still. I am like, "how are people affording this!!" and I tend to get down on myself when I see people doing all of these things. If I hadn't chose teaching, our lives would be so different right now. If Mark and I had waited to get married, he wouldn't have had to take a year off of school and would have been done a year ago, things would be so different. It just goes down a dangerous road when you start thinking like this!

In 2016, especially the last six months, I have been working on being patient with myself as I grow and work on new goals. I will be continuing that in 2017, and probably the rest of my life! I am also going to work on being happy with where I am right now. Focusing on the positive, being more appreciative of the people in my life and just being grateful in general. It's going to take a lot of patience with myself when I start focusing on the negative, something that is very easy for me, but I really believe in the power of positive thinking so I think that focusing on being happy no matter the circumstance will really help my overall life.


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Have a good weekend! Mark is driving at Sundance Film Festival this weekend. You may recognize some of the guys he is driving, like this guy and this guy. It's a girls weekend for me! 
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Monday, January 16, 2017

pink leather jacket





Confession time.
I am currently taking up two closets and a dresser with all of my freaking clothes....yet I rotate between like four outfits, and this is one of them. I really need someone to come look at my closet and give me a fresh perspective on my clothing, ya know? 
I am head over heels in love with this pink leather jacket. I feel like it is very on brand for me. Basically anything that can go with black jeans is my aesethic. Guess how many pairs of black jeans I own? Whatever you are thinking, double that. 
Anyway, I met up with some cute girls I met through blogging to take some pictures on Saturday. I felt basic x 10 but it was fun to get dressed up! In my reader survey, people wanted to see more fashion posts and I definitely took that seriously...haha! We said to bring 2-3 outfits and I showed up with 6...haha and that was after majorly cutting down. So get prepared to see more soon.
Also, Mark told me not to go with the choker but I was like, "it works with the outfit!" and then it was crooked in these pictures and I didn't notice. Fail!! Haha. Oh well. I linked all the stuff I'm wearing below. I couldn't find the exact pink jacket from F21 plus size section but I linked similar ones. I would recommend the BooHoo one because a few times a week it will go on sale for 60% off. My choker I am wearing is from there too, linked below.

Today I have the day off, as most do, and we are going to eat somewhere downtown (SLC) and then see Lion. Mark is driving for Sundance Film Festival this year and he starts working Thursday, and he has an insane schedule. I also have the busiest week of my life somehow with meetings, class, and book club so we won't be seeing each other for like another week! I'm excited for the stories he will bring home from driving around who knows who this week....we have heard some great stories from people who have driven in the past so I'm eager to see what happens.

Have a good week!


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Sunday, January 8, 2017

weekend recap///3

This was the craziest week since I went back to school on Tuesday. Honestly this week has felt as long as my whole Christmas break! A lot of it has to do with the weather. In Utah, the snow has been out of control! I don't remember it ever snowing this much or being this cold down in Utah County. When I lived in Logan (in Northern Utah) I was used to it, but more south it's pretty crazy when it gets so cold. 
On Tuesday, it was so hard to get to work. The roads were so bad! I got stuck getting off the freeway and I was lucky to get out! White knuckles don't even quite cover it. Thankfully, the district gave us a late start on Thursday so I could get to work safely. Then on Friday the pipes burst at my school and water was everywhere! It was just a weird week.
Friday night  I didn't take any pictures (blahhh) but we hot tubbed at our friend's apartment complex and it was actually really nice. 
Saturday morning I went to City Creek to get my phone's battery fixed and to exchange that jacket I got at Forever 21 that Mark said looked like "Ed Hardy". The thing that sucks about F21 (other than they use underpaid workers and their quality generally is the worst) is that you can never return, just exchange. However when I went to get the cost of my jacket put on a gift card, the beautiful wonderful clerk told me that City Creek was the one store in the nation that was piloting money back returns! I could have kissed her face because that jacket was $50!! So that was so great.
I drove back home and the weather was fine, it even looked like it was maybe going to be sunny later!  
I did some cleaning at home and then Mark and I decided to go back to Salt Lake to eat at one of our favorite Chinese places. During this time it had started snowing, but it didn't look too bad from out our basement apartment window...haha! We left and made it down our street before we realized the roads were SUCH garbage that we were going no where. We also had exactly zero food in our fridge so we barely made it to the store and home before we hunkered down for the night. This is exactly why I hate snow! I am a control freak so anytime I don't have control, I'm NOT DOWN FOR IT. I was so annoyed it canceled our plans and made for a boring night. 
It's supposed to be a week full of snow and freezing rain and I hope that changes because I honestly don't know if I can handle another week of white knuckle drives everywhere. It wears me out!

Anyway, I digress. Here is our meal plan for this week!

Since I have gone back to school on Tuesday nights, we have a leftovers/fend for yourself night on Tuesdays.

Sunday: We tried to recreate the meal that the snow storm ruined from our favorite Chinese place. It obviously wasn't as good but it worked! You have seen the recipe for this General Tso's chicken on my blog before. You can see that post here. We also used the ingredients we got for Banh Mi and put them in egg rolls. So it was a pork, cucumber, cilantro, carrot egg roll. Very yummy! Then of course, cream cheese wontons for dessert. So scrumptious.
Monday: Mark tried a new recipe from the cookbook I gave him for Christmas. I can't post the recipe here because it's copyrighted and if Anthony Bourdain wanted to sue me, he would win. BUT! I found some similar recipes on Pinterest here and here. It was tasty. If you haven't had Banh Mi, it's basically a Vietnamese sandwich and it's very good. People get so sensitive when they hear a word they don't understand involving food. If that's you, pretend I just told you that it's a steak sandwich with a great marinade and yummy veggies and you'll be fine. Banh mi is one of my favorite foods. If you are looking for a really good one, go to Oh Mai in Salt Lake or South Jordan. They are the best there. When making it yourself, remember a few things. The first thing is the bun. That is the key to the whole sandwich When bun shopping, pick a really soft yet crunchy bun. Another thing is if you're hesitant to try it, don't put daikon in it. Daikon is a radish but some people don't like it. Other than that it is just really yummy.
Wednesday: Remember all that pork shoulder we marinated in the ramen noodle broth for ten hours over Christmas break? We saved it because it was easily shredded and used it for pulled pork sandwiches. TBH it was the best pulled pork I've ever had! It got extra flavor from sitting in the broth with mushrooms and other veggies and it was so yummy. I even ate it on a bagel because we accidentally only got one bun. 
Thursday: We did a repeat meal of Som Tom and Nam Tok because we happened to visit the asian store and picked up a green papaya. If you want explanation on this meal, go to this post.

Above is a grocery list for each recipe! Yum yum! 
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Tuesday, January 3, 2017

New Years Eve 2016

Ah man guys, I just hate New Years Eve. I always have. I think I've had one good New Years in my life and it was last year. This year was good not great. We decided to go to the Jazz game with a bunch of friends. Every time we go to the Jazz game we get flash seats so that we just have the tickets on our phones, but this time we got them from Stub Hub and we had to print them out. A fact we didn't realize until we were driving to the game. We went to my parents and tried to print them out, but the printer wasn't working and it was so stressful! Haha! You should have seen my Dad just rip the printer out of the wall. It was really funny later on but not in the moment. I ended up having to run to my neighbors house to print them off (thanks Kathy!) but yeah, it just got off to a stressful start. The game itself was great! We won!
After the game we planned on going to Sugarhouse BBQ but it was closed! Bleh! We found another place to go and it was pretty good. 
After we went back to a friends house and played some games. We were all so involved in Settlers of Catan that we didn't even acknowledge midnight, which was kind of a huge bummer, but oh well!




I didn't get any pictures of actual people which again, bummer. At least I got some pictures to document! 
Hopefully our 2017 year will go better than the first night!
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Monday, January 2, 2017

begging, borrowing, stealing.

Happy New Year!
Today I slept in and then put in a full day of working. Lesson planning, grading, tying up the loose ends I promised I would do over the holiday. I was having a hard time getting in the headspace of it all this morning, being majorly whiny and depressed and then Mark realized he hadn't fed me. YOU MUST FEED ME! Moments after I wake up, someone needs to give me a bagel or something. Anyway, after Chick Fil A I was ready to go and I went into major crunch time. I was done just in time to watch the sun go down on my Christmas break. I am excited to go back and get in my routine again! I have gained so much weight over this break and I feel like a blob all the time so I need to get back into normal life.

This weekend I worked for hours and hours on the education blog I told you guys about. I hired my amazing graphic designer, rodchenko, from Fiverr again (he did my blog business cards) and I highly recommend him. He only charged me $15 for a ton of work! He also is amazing at reading my mind. I told him I wanted a minimalistic but cute blog header and HE DID PROVIDE! Check him out HERE.

I also learned way more about HTML than I think I ever want to know. I definitely could not have done it without my friends Emily and Nate. 

All that to say, my education blog is live! It's called Begging, Borrowing and Stealing. Here is my little blurb:

When I was attending school for my teaching degree, my professors kept repeating over and over, "great teachers beg, borrow and steal." I didn't realize how true this would be until I started teaching myself. 

The teacher I am today is a combination of every teacher I have ever worked with, every educator who has shared resources online, every mentor I've ever had. I hope to pass along that knowledge and share some resources with you that will get your students out of their seats and closing their notebooks.

I specialize in 8th grade U.S History, English, and Gifted Education. Not only do I teach regular U.S History and Honors English, but I teach a gifted class that combines U.S History and English. 
Though my lessons have an emphasis for gifted students, I believe that all of my lessons can be differentiated for different groups and grade levels.

Lastly, I'm not an expert on anything. I'm not a super experienced teacher, I learn things every single day. I make a million mistakes and have to re-adjust. I have lessons that go horribly and I have students whom I cannot get under control. I hope to create a community that supports and inspires each other in a increasingly difficult profession. This blog has been many hours in the making and a lot of love goes into each lesson. Let's make the classroom a fun place to be. I hope that you enjoy!


If you are a teacher or know a teacher, I would love for you to follow along! Thanks for all the support, bbs! 
If you haven't, please take my survey about this blog
Have a great week!
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Friday, December 30, 2016

winter break recap part one

I got out of school on the 16th and it has been the most glorious break, but it's gone so fast!  I can't believe Christmas Eve was almost a week ago. At the same time it feels like it's been years since I thought about school, which has been really great. 
We have done so much on Christmas break! We balanced relaxing and doing fun things, it's been really great. 
One day we ate at Red Iguana and they had this HUGE wreath! 

We made gingerbread houses and mine was such a disaster! I couldn't get it to stay up. So this is Marks, mine was too ugly to photograph


 My Mom had some free tickets to Hale theater so she let us use them to see A Christmas Carol. I went almost every year growing up! I also worked at a ticket office for 5 years in college so I have a connection every time I go to live performances like this. 

Mark and I tried to take a picture by this huge tree in the lobby because no one looked interested in taking it for us, but as you can see they were all major failures.


 Christmas Eve! I am wearing Lipsense in this picture. The color is called Brick and it is sandwiched between icicle, a clear LipSense color.
If we're being honest, Christmas Eve was not great! I tend to forget that my family is imperfect. My expectation vs reality thoughts are always so skewed when it comes to holidays and every year, I forget! So I ended the night in tears on the couch eating junk food. Christmas day made up for it, though.




 I love, love, love having "Me" days. I have spent my whole life thinking I was an extrovert only to realize in the past few years that I am an outgoing introvert. I just get so much energy off hanging out by myself. I feel like the worst wife sometimes when I am like "Me day! Bye!" but it's necessary or I turn into a monster.
A few days after Christmas I took off to the mall for some me time. I bought the jacket I am wearing (but not the shirt underneath, #unflattering)  and when I brought it home to show Mark the first thing he said was "Ed Hardy!" and I was like "NOOOO!" so, internet, should I return the jacket? It's from stupid F21 and I hate their exchange policy, but I could probably find something cute instead. I'm at a loss! I just wanted a cute embroidered bomber but instead I got Ed Hardy. Ugh. 


We saw yet another movie! Moonlight! It was so different than I thought. We actively avoid trailers at our house, and all I saw when I looked up the times was "child soldier" so obviously my white idiotic self thought it would be about Ghana child soldiers and it is NOT.
It's also very much R rated, so ya know, be advised. 
Also a word about the Tower theater in SLC, it sucks.




Okay, I need to preface these next few pictures.
Mark loves to cook and so I got him two cookbooks for Christmas, which he immediately read and meal planned our week. On Wednesday, Mark woke up early and spent 10 hours cooking ramen noodle broth and pork buns. I sat on the couch and read not one but two books and then binged an entire season of Great Food Truck Race.
This was the ramen he made with the 10 hour broth.

 He put normal pork in it because I hate pork belly in ramen.

 However, I did love the pork belly in these little bbq pork sandwiches. So tasty!


and we'll close it out with this huge tray of pork shoulder that sat in the ramen broth for 6 hours. 

Happy New Years! We are going to a Jazz game tomorrow and then I have to face the reality of going back to work. Wish me luck!
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Thursday, December 29, 2016

blog survey

Hi friends!
I have some exciting things planned for 2017 hobby wise. I am starting an education blog to document all my lesson plans and stuff, I'm super excited about to be able to show my passion in this way! I also have been playing around with the idea of starting an education podcast. That one makes me nervous because I'm not quite sure what I would say, but there is almost no good education podcasts out there and it's a shame! There is so much to talk about. 

Anyway, all that being said, I'm interested to see what happens with this blog. This year I haven't taken it as "seriously" as I took it in 2015, meaning I haven't really reached out to companies or looked at numbers, I haven't been actively trying to grow as much. It's actually been great, to be honest. At the start 2016 I returned to my blogging roots, I blog because I like it. I collab with certain companies that I love and I deny the ones I do not. I love and value the friendships I have made because of blogging. This started as a place for me to practice writing and document my life, and I really came back to that in 2016. So this year has been really nice, I hop on when I want and don't feel the need to apologize for my absences or anything like that. I've worked with some amazing companies this year and also documented my life! I have written some things I'm proud of, and have a ton more in drafts that I'm working up the courage to publish. So, 2017, hopefully I hit that button. 

All that to say, I have some questions for you! If you could fill out this short survey, that would help me immensely to get a sense of things. It should take about a minute. 
If the box below isn't working, click here






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